The art of seduction
One of the things I do for fun, and to mellow out is play poker online. There are a few things I’ve noticed while I’ve been playing. The biggest item I noticed is that well, there are some really fun people out there playing poker. There are also some not so fun folks playing, and then there are some who are just flat out jerks. I mean get real, it’s a virtual game!!
I’m not going to say that I’m a flirt, I’m friendly. There’s a difference, no really, there is. What gets me though is that most of the time I don’t have to do a dang thing and some guy is pouncing like a panther. I can be playing an innocent game of poker when all of a sudden I have some guy saying hi to me. Innocent enough right? Normally yes. Most people if you are nice enough to chat will ask where you are from, blah blah blah…. I am talkative..uh if you read the ‘About Us’ I warned you of that one right? Ok..so..I like talking and I have no problem telling someone where I’m from, and I love to find out where other folks are from too. What freaks me out….is when some guy asks you ohhhh…3 or 4 things and then all of a sudden is telling you that they love you!!! Seriously, I thought that women were the ones to pop that little phrase outta their mouths too fast…..not the guys. Had one guy recently tell me that he wanted to marry me…um…small problem dude….oh forget it…why bother to explain.
Here is what amuses me like crazy….. women will talk to a guy. They don’t get all hot and bothered talking to some guy online while playing poker. Some guys on the other hand, really need to take not a cold shower…but more like they need to soak in a tub of ice cubes. Now, here is my view on the guys who go too far….they need to get laid really really bad. LOL!!! Yeah, there really wasn’t a nicer way to put that to be honest. I mean, give me a break. Do men really think we are that gullible? DON’T ANSWER THAT!!!
Now, want to know what attracts women to a guy? Ok so this is a massive opinion….and should be taken with only an ounce of reality. Women like men who are honest, nice, friendly, okay…so if you’re cute and have a nice body you score more points…lol. What do women NOT like…guys who flirt with every girl out there, guys with attitudes and who think they are perfect. There is nothing more unattractive than a guy who thinks he’s every woman’s fantasy because guess what guys…just the fact that you THINK you are…means you are not what we are wanting. We might like the initial challenge to get ALL of your attention, but, if you keep flirting with that other girl…we’ll think your an asshole who really isn’t interested and we’ll give our attention to someone else. The biggie though…don’t treat us like we are there for your convinience, or that we should be expected to be available whenever you want us to be. Reality check….it’s a two way road.
Wow…this went a WHOLE other direction that I originally planned. Guess I had a few things in my head that were screaming to get out! Just be glad that I opted to stop here….seriously. But hey, if you have any thoughts on this…yell at me…go ahead. I can take it….I like a challenge…
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